You are right Suntou. I cannot fathom why MB would go looking for a "wife"  
who ran away for the first time? I know some may say "friggin love". But my 
God,  what kinda love is that?
 
Haruna.
 
 
 
In a message dated 1/13/2008 5:06:37 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,  
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A  Gambian who took me as a friend and companion was involve in an 
uncomfortable  love triangle for the past five years in U.K. This man is in his early 
40's  .He came from the Gambia some time in 2002 but was refuse entry into u.k 
and  then he apply for asylum. his application was provisionally accepted 
pending  further assessments. he was then asked to provide some one who will 
provide  him an address and a place to stay before his application is  finalised.

Now this guy knew only one person who  could provide him this facility and 
that man is his close friend way back in  the Gambia and when they were living 
in Scana Navia .After the friend was  contacted ,he did not waste any time ,the 
friend is a European citizen  resident through marriage. he will be allowed 
to take the friend home with him  but on certain conditions. one of which is 
that the asylum seeker must report  to a nearby police station every week.
That was sorted. I will refer  to the asylum seeker as Mr LT. Interestingly 
,the Friend who provided a place  for Mr LT to stay until his application is 
sorted was also expecting his new  bride from the Gambia on the flight that 
brought LT. the bride's name is NJ.  
Whilst in the flight the two ,Mr LT and Mrs NJ exchange greetings  and it may 
be love at first sight . after both were pick up by the husband of  NJ whom i 
will refer to as MB.
They proceeded to Manchester city u.k  to live. MB provided all the necessary 
facility LT needs to have a comfortable  stay before the immigration will 
sort out his applications. MB who was divorce  from his Scana Navian wife ,but is 
with his Scana Navian passport has all the  facilities available to EU 
national in U.K. he was given a council house   ,which is spacious and comfortable. 
the rent is a little lower than private  properties. But MB has to work. he 
took some days off to enjoy the company of  his new bride .after his holiday 
period was over he went back to  work.
LT is not allowed to work, he stayed home with the bride  of MB all day 
whilst MB is busy at work. It was during this material time that  ,LT started 
sleeping with the wife of his friend ,his rescuer. MB never  suspect a thing for a 
while .but not for long ,some one else show the two in  town hand in hand just 
as MB would have done if he wasn't at his day job. That  person is also a 
friend of MB. he was a bit shock to see two like that. He  phone MB straight away 
to inform him of what he show. MB never took that call  seriously. he though 
his other friend was mistaken. But on weekends when MB is  at home ,LT and NJ 
act a suspiciously for MB's comfort. he started to suspect  some thing. MB 
then arrange a place for LT with some of his single friends. LT  accepted that 
offer. he move to stay with MB's single friends close by. He  never told LT why 
he decided to move him out of his house. 
To MB's  horror his wife regularly visit LT at his new place when MB is at 
work. The  friend's again reported that matter to MB who was very sad but now 
angry. he  confronted LT and vow to withdraw his guarantee for him with the 
immigrations.  After that threat, LT made some contacts and abscond from 
Manchester to live  my city.

I never knew any thing about his past  behaviour in Manchester. After few 
weeks ,NJ ran away from the husband to come  and stay with LT in my city. Still 
no one knew what is going on. LT told every  one the lady is his wife.they got 
married recently in Manchester. MB doesn't  know where LT lives or where his 
wife went to. He then started asking around  until it was reveal to him that LT 
lives in the west midlands.  

MB though was angry ,he calm himself down and  brought with him two of his 
friend to persuade his wife to return back to  Manchester with him. MB and his 
friends came to my city and they started  asking around for LT. LT was using a 
new name ,they look around for two days  to no avail. Fortunately on the third 
day ,whilst waiting at the train station  ,they show a Gambian who told them 
were The two live. Unannounced ,MB and his  friends went straight to LT's 
house. They knock the door and NJ unsuspecting  open the door only to see her 
husband with his friends waiting outside. By  this period LT has learn his tricks 
,he is working on some Else's papers and  living a bit comfortable even though 
his application was later rejected and he  was asked to leave the u.k. MB 
promise not to say where LT lives unless he  promise stay away from his wife .LT  
accepted that truce .MB took his  wife home with him but only for three 
weeks. She ran back to LT .After this  ,the husband left her alone.
LT was reported to immigrations ,he was  arrested but refuse to go back. he 
spend one year in several detention centres  across u.k .now they let him free. 
he is still living with NJ  .

I never knew any of this until few weeks ago. LT  is a very pleasant Gambian. 
he is friendly and smooth. I was in a friend's  house when a guy from 
Manchester came to visit him. during the usual chit chat  ,he asked about NJ . i said 
oh, she is married to my best friend. he frowned.  i said what happen? it was 
after which the guy explain the whole situation .i  was shocked.
When LT was arrested ,his wife told us it was for  driving offences .he was 
driving without a license,no insurance and road tax.  that is a big crime in 
U.K .i believed her. we arrange a fund raising for her  and their new Born baby 
.no one told me any thing about LT stealing some one  Else's wife. I later 
enquire more ,the story is true. LT's own family brother  in U.K cut off all ties 
with him because of that act .

Is this story LOVE between two consenting adults or BETRAYAL ? for  me it is 
a betrayal and a shocking scenario that is shameful and disgusting.  .

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