Sir you mean instead people should have mistresses and loves and give birth to illegitimate children who are neglected.

What differentiate a child from a polygamous home from an abandoned child from a mistress in love.

As Mr. Sankanu said the west has monogamy is that preventing them from divorce, broken homes,one-night-stands, adultery!

Mr. Suntu Touray is right that polygamy will not dissatisfy. We can all agree and disagree but the sun will always rise from the East.

Monogamy is also selfish where people said "I do not want to share". if we look at it in all ways no perfect answer will be seen. The adage is...

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> Datum: Thu, 8 Oct 2009 22:53:31 -0700
> Von: Demba Baldeh <[log in to unmask]>
> An: [log in to unmask]
> Betreff: Re: In Maafanta 2.. Jecob Zuma the man. sankanu weighs in

> I think polygamy is a recipe to endless problems many of our men create
> for
> themselves. If you cannot handle the one woman you have in your household,
> how in the world can you handle two or three, four or six?. It is like
> being
> an alcoholic and adding hard drugs on to it.
>
> The excuse that great men died in Battles and therefore it was ok to take
> their wives is no longer practical. If one woman cannot satisfy you no
> amount of women will satisfy you.
>
> Its a false excuse to say it is religious or tradition. It is greed and
> self
> fulfilling fantasies.  The victims are the innocent children who gets
> caught
> up in the fight.
>
> Down with poly -game - me.
>
> Demba
>
> On Wed, Oct 7, 2009 at 10:16 AM, Emman <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
>
> > MORE GAMBIAN MEN SHOULD BE IN THE POLYGAMY DEBATE
> > Em
> > -------- Original-Nachricht --------
> > > Datum: Tue, 6 Oct 2009 07:06:25 +0000
> > > Von: SUNTOU TOURAY <[log in to unmask]>
> > > An: [log in to unmask]
> > > Betreff: Re: In Maafanta 2.. Jecob Zuma the man. sankanu weighs in
> >
> > > Now this is getting more interesting. My other newphew Bubacarr
> Sankanu
> > > weighs in the polygamy debate with a bang. My newphew is very blunt i
> > must
> > > say. Sad to read about the health complication of our Gambian sister.
> May
> > God
> > > bring her back to full heath.
> > > www.maafanta.com
> > > Â
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Â
> > > Â
> > > Â
> > > "Ignore the foolish feminist propaganda
> > > says Sankanu and has given you reasons fifteen pages long!
> > > Â
> > > Yes, African Women In The Diaspora
> > > Share Their Husbands!
> > > Long Live Jacob Zuma. God Bless Polygamy!
> > > By Bubacarr A Sankanu, Cologne, Germany
> > >
> > > Introduction
> > >
> > > I am a bit embarrassed that no man, Gambian, African or otherwise,
> joined
> > > the battle of the sexes going on at Maafanta.com over polygamy.
> > > Perhaps the chauvinists brushed it off as just another feminist
> gossip.
> > > Others might have chosen to ignore it considering that fracas over the
> > Gambia
> > > Press Union in Obamastan (USA).
> > > Some could however conclude that bashing our poor President Yahya
> Jammeh
> > > is more convenient that taking on those fire-spitting feminist rebels!
> > Boys,
> > > there are no more men left in Europe and North America. The feminists
> > > there have succeeded in freezing their balls. Do you want us African
> boys
> > to
> > > share the miserable fate of those white boys?
> > > Sorry whities I do not mean to be racist, but after ten years in your
> > > world, I can testify on how your chicks have made you into what the
> > Germans
> > > call Weicheier (soft balls, cowards) and tote Hose (dead trousers,
> > nothing on
> > > bed)! Take the case of aesthetics for example. The way you Western
> boys
> > > define feminine beauty is different from the way we African guys see
> > beauty.
> > > Feminism has made you guys lazy and weak that's why you are promoting
> > those
> > > skinny and hungry fashion-photo models as ideals of artificial beauty.
> We
> > > Africans or black men are mad about authentic women with
> “meat”,
> > great
> > > curves, elegant backsides and naturally intimidating mammary glands! A
> > real
> > > man must hold on to “meat” during romps. So it is unfair
> to insist on
> > > making Western beauty equally African.
> > > I am not a castrated coward and as a warrior prince, I feel I should
> > spend
> > > some time here flirting, smooching and having serious fun with the
> sweet
> > > bad girls and Amazons of Maafanta.com over the subject of polygamy and
> > > related man-woman squabbles.
> > > I know the die-hard feminists will declare me wanted for my
> provocative
> > > stance on the perpetual battle of the sexes. But first, I would like
> to
> > > belatedly welcome Maafanta.com to the Gambian/African Cyber
> > Family..........more
> > >
> > > --- On Sun, 4/10/09, SUNTOU TOURAY <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> > >
> > >
> > > From: SUNTOU TOURAY <[log in to unmask]>
> > > Subject: In Maafanta 2.. Jecob Zuma the man
> > > To: [log in to unmask]
> > > Date: Sunday, 4 October, 2009, 5:29 PM
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Jecob Zuma captured the reality of false monogamous felas. I once meet
> a
> > > married Indain tycoon in a business show in Birmingham. He confided me
> in
> > > that, every year, he cheat on his wife three times. But he quickly
> went
> > on to
> > > mention that, "i am a happily married man". yeah until your wife finds
> > > out.
> > > Where is AMNA?
> > > Is it ok for younger men to married older women then? Becus, i can
> > > remember a married situation call "kun den dendo" when an older granny
> > marries a
> > > younger man for the shake avoiding dying without a husband.
> > > But there are still beautiful older sisters around, i wonder whether
> they
> > > will want a much younger fela like Haruna taking them as 'mbomiris' or
> > > 'ntorin laman'.
> > > Maafanta is doing well. Gainako too over the past month entertain us
> with
> > > brilliant stuffs, good radiance brothers. As usual freedom is on the
> fore
> > > front with things, our own allgambian is doing good. Not forgeting the
> > > versatile senegambia news and the new look Gambiajournal.
> > > Our media folks are doing right well. Salute them.###
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