i was disappointed yesterday after i received a complaint from a Gambian brother in our city. The issue involved a married sister whose husband is in the Gambia whilst she is in England. I am the record keeper of the Gambia association we have in the city. i have all the contact details of every single member man or woman. Last month, a brother LT ,in his forties called me to get a number of the married sister. remember here this brother is living with his wife in our city as well. he requested me to pass the phone number of the sister to him. i enquire as to why he need the phone number? his answer was ,well he and the sister share the same family name and that he want them to be brother and sister. i was hesitant to pass the number. he enquire whether i don 't trust him having the number? i said it is not about that but because i shouldn't pass on any body's information without their prior approvals. he said sadly ,''so now there is no trust even in family ties?'' i said
 OK, let me hand you the number and i will contact her to tell her about your request.
  i gave him the number. i later called the lady to inform her about the issue.she was happy that some one wish to have a family relation with her which is rare she said. that was the last time i have any thing to do with the situation. 
  yesterday afternoon whilst i was having my rest,my mobile phone rang. an older Gambian brother was on the phone his name is kk. me and kk talk regularly about Gambian issues. but this time it is not the usual discussions.he was reporting LT the KOTOKE who took the number from me. LT is pestering this lady .he wanted them to have an affair. the lady said she ''tried every thing to discourage the LT politely but he couldn't stop.'' from being brother and sister to being lovers. how sad!!
  this is the same kotoke who took the number from me ,giving the most honourable reason. i was fooled by a bad koteke. the lady said that LT  is the second Gambian brother pestering her. the other one is a marabout TJ who is married to an Indian lady. the sad thing is ,both this brothers are married and living with their wife's yet they are pestering a married woman who is so honourable she decline their infidelity offers out of rest for her husband and her religion. now the pestering is so bad the sister cannot hide the matter any more. i was called to discuss ways in stopping the nuance pestering by the two bad behave brothers (LT and TJ) . our plan was to tell the sister ,if any one of this fools approach you ,tell them you will call the police and that she will inform me and the caller KK to take up the issue.
   
  why should this married men be following a respectable Gambian sister who frankly told them that she is married and that she is not interested in adultery.yet this stupid fools cannot leave her alone. the sister advice the KK who called me not to discuss the matter with this LT and TJ ,she said ''they may spoil her name and reputation. and their wife's may attack her''. i was shocked and sad at the behaviour of this grown ash koteke's who cannot learn to behave even after the ripe age of 41. when will such men grow up? be careful guys .some explanations are only a smoke screen. i can bring up the Islamic injunctions here but i don't wish to bore any one. 

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