Mr Darbo, Ifanang Hekatu, Kana Kumbo! You got me confused with my namesake Edie Sidibeh. If I was to give you a monicker it would be Nostra-Darbos. Thanks for trying to add perspective to the Hadith forwards. In your quest for a Hadith dealing with the Environment/Agriculture, I suggest you try the following searchable online Hadith facilities: http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/engagement/resources/texts/muslim/search.html or www.searchtruth.com Edi On 22/06/2009, Haruna Darbo <[log in to unmask]> wrote: > [-----Original Message----- From: Edie Sidibeh [log in to unmask] To: > [log in to unmask] > Sent: Sun, Jun 21, 2009 12:47 pm Subject: Re: Daily Hadith - Marital Discord > Pleases Shaytaan Most > > > > > > Haruiner,] Bilal. > > This must be a t ypo Bilal. It does look like you did put some deliberate and > concerted effort into > it though. If it is not a typo, I must say I was a bit shocked at why you > would consider me a destroyer. > That may be a bit too strong if only for allegory. > > [I was very busy these passed days, adding fuel to fire; I Love to dislike > you these days as well.] Bilal. > > Bilal, you were angry with me for something??? I never knew. What > happened??? WHat did I do or NOT do > to inure such disdain so? I think it is extreme to call me names without > informing me why I have upset you. At > least give me an opportunity to make good. I really thought our comraderie > and new-found friendship is > worth considerations and patience with one another. I am not very pleased > right now. Was it because I honour you > by calling you Bilal? I thought the name Bilal is honourable, reserved for > like character of Saahebs. > > [My anger and dislikes became valueless when love took the centre stage and > disallow the hate to develop > between people who have a collective motivation towards the betterment of > humanity in general; > (aiwali kano sembo warata baakelee Haruiner).] Bilal. > > I don't understand my Bilal. Are you implying that but for my "apparent" > motivation for the betterment of humanity > yielded=2 > 0me your forgiveness? And that w ere I not to be of any value in the > betterment of humanity, you would > have remained angry with me???? That is not much consolation for me because > it is my duty to attenuate > humanity's fortunes and that must not excuse my erstwhile delinquencies. > What exactly angered you Bilal?? > > [Enough with that, However I red you post bellow today and I think you > should start your own (dara), teaching people > about this your philosophy and which, to my liking, is also an answer to > many question others are asking regarding > relationship in general Bravo Mr. ruiner.] Bilal. > > I am pleased Bilal that you find value in the brief marital counsel I > offered as rejoinder to your more valuable sharing > of the Hadith on the same topic. I was merely displeased with Shaytaan. > However, you continue to call me Ruiner. > DO you actually believe me to be a ruiner, or is it that you could not come > up with a mre appropriate nickname for > your friend on short order??? You have yielded me enormous anxiety Bilal. > WHy exactly do you refer to me as RUiner? > > [I gave you the name Haruiner because you ruin people's name.] Bilal. > > Hmmm! Do you consider affectionately calling you Bilal tantamounts to > ruining your good name Jah??? I am confident > you did not intend to prosecute me for "apparent aversio" of other. Or do > you? > > [Have a nice African's fathers day. Edie] Bilal. > > You just ruined my Father's week. Please let me know why you are angry with > me. You know when you graced us > you had invited > company in your journey toward Islam. I was kind enough to enjoin you in > what I knew would be a long > and sober journey. If we begin by getting angry with one another > gratuitously, our eternal journey will be forever burdened. > I was thinking you appreciated my company. I know I was enjoying yours. And > I was yielding value from't. You have caused > me some unfashionable angst. I look forward to your clarifications and an > opportunity for me to make good by you. > > Haruna. TIger was close but Lucas GLover was too hungry. Even Lefty and > Duval could not derail his pursuit. His mouth > filled with chewing tobacco. How did Mali-Benin come out Bilal??? > > --- On Thu, 18/6/09, Haruna Darbo <[log in to unmask]> wrote: > > > From: Haruna Darbo <[log in to unmask]> > Subject: Re: Daily Hadith - Marital Discord Pleases Shaytaan Most > To: [log in to unmask] > Date: Thursday, 18 June, 2009, 4:34 PM > > > > > > > Thanx Bilal for sharing. > > This is a real way to help guide marriages and keep families together. Much > of the > work for a healthy marriage could be done at the front end. That will sve a > visit by > Shaytaa and put him/her out of business for good for Allah sakes. Two idiots > ought > not get married to one another. Plus marriages ought never be arranged by > anyone > other than the two to be wedded. The best thing friends and family can do is > to > introduce the prospective grooms and facilitate their courting and then > allow the two > birds to get hitched as and when they desire. A pre-nuptual should > be considered > w > hen either perceives trifle motivation for marriage. > > On the other hand, and for those who only desire procreation, marriage is > illadvised > for you. You can raise the children together and take care of each other > without the > contract of marriage. This part is for those humans who have attained a more > mature > station in life. And there is no hell or heaven. There is Amagideon though > when we do > not take care of our planet. No other planet can sustain human life as well > as Earth > ws able to and I'm not sure we will be welcome by dwellers of other planets. > > Taking care of our planet includes recognizing each other as equal residents > and > nurturing the weaker among us. It is that recognition/consideration matrix > that > encompasses marital relations. When you are married, each individual still > retains > their human rights. The marriage does not re-define that. The miscellaneous > aspects > of a marriage such as how family income is earned, possessions and comforts > yielded, > and the education, health, discipline, and religion of the family, are to be > negotiated > with your fundamental humanrights in mind. It is preferable for the two > spouses to come > from similar cultural and religious background but it is not a > necessity. This commonality > only helps to expedite the negotiation process but does not substitute for > it. > > DO not marry someone ONLY because they look beautiful or handsome. > Do not marry someone ONLY because they are financially well off. > Do not marry someone ONLY because you share the same cultural and=2 > 0religious heritage. > Do not marry somene ONLY because you share national origin with them. > Do not marry anyone ONLY because you admire something they have. > > Marriage is to raise a family, with or without children. That means if you > marry someone, > and through no fault of your own or your partner, you cannot bear children, > you must not > terminate or annul the marriage. You can adopt orphans or for those of you > whose religion > accomodates it, you may add another marital partner but ONLY upon mutual > agreement. > SHort of this mutual agreement, adopting orphans is most adv isable. It is > highly advisable > should you yield mutual consent, to add a widower who as lost her husband to > death, > acciden tal or suicidal. It is ill-advised to marry a widower CONVICTED of > murdering their > spouse (male or female). > > I have devised a whole code for marriage called Haruna's codes for marriage > and I shall > share them with anyone who desires, au gratis. I am not married yet myself. > I desire to > but with deligence and sobriety. I have children and have adopted orphans > without requiring > them transfer fatherhood to me. I think that is most aggregious. > > Allez. Haruna. Thanx again Bilal for sharing the Hadiths. They help my > further discernment > in matters of social accord. When you are able, and if there is any, could > you share a Hadith > or two about harnessing the environment to yield valuable product. Much > obliged. MQJGDT. > AL Mu'Umin. > > -----Original Message----- > From: Edi Jah <[log in to unmask]> > To: [log in to unmask] > Sent: Thu, > Jun 18, 2009 7:55 am > Subject: Fwd: Daily Hadith - Marital Discord Pleases Shaytaan Most > > > > Marital Discord Pleases Shaytaan Most > > > > he Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said that > > haytaan sits on his throne dail y and dispatches his agents to work > > mong human beings. One of the agents returns and says that I made a > > ertain person commit a sin, another says I got so and so involved in > > his offence. Upo > > listening to all this, Shaytaan says that you have > > one nothing great. Eventually, one representative comes and says that > > saw a husband and wife extremely devoted to each other. I sowed the > > eeds of enmity between them. On hearing this, Shaytaan becomes happy > > nd embracing his agent says that you have indeed achieved something > > reat. [Mishkat] > > > he love > between a husband and wife is the biggest blow to Shaytaan. > > rom this it is apparent how meritorious this love is. The Islamic > > rescription for success in married life is based on taqwa, fear, > > ove, and consciousness of Allah. Taqwa -- the basis for all aspects > > f Islamic life -- is especially relevant to the household. That is > > hy Sura Nisa, which contains many commands regarding the rights and > > esponsibilities of spouses, begins with repeated reminders of taqwa. > > > o fight Shaytaan, one needs Allah's help and it comes with taqwa, > > .e. living with the awareness that Allah is watching us and will hold > > s accountable for our actions. A direct and far reaching consequence > > f this awareness > is that a fight for rights is replaced by a concern > > or responsibilities. One's responsibilities are other's rights. A > > uslim husband and wife will be concerned with discharging their > > uties toward each other. 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