I watch with the utmost curiosity as amazing women - friends, relatives, and even celebrities - kept having bad luck in love. The relationships they got into were always short-lived, and often ended badly.
A recurring question I have always had: "These women have EVERYTHING going for them. But why are they so unlucky in love?"
I've realized that while being beautiful is good, beauty is only skin-deep! I've learned that men look for beauty only when they're looking for short-term relationships. But if they're looking for a real, loving, lifetime relationship, they need something MORE IMPORTANT than beauty.
Three things, to be exact:
Quality #1: Honesty/Optimism.
Men are mystified and allured by women who have absolutely nothing to hide! More than anything, honesty and optimism makes guys think you're someone they can trust.
John Lennon once said: "Being honest may not get you a lot of friends, but it will always get you the right ones."
Similarly, being honest AND optimistic may not get you a lot of male attention... but it will always get you the RIGHT kind of attention!
Quality #2: You "Get It."
When I asked men why they fell in love with their now-wives, all the testimonials boil down to one SOLID fact about guys: They love it when you understand male psychology. Most women make the mistake of thinking that male psychology isn't important, or that it's sexist, or that it's the guy's job to understand women, and not the other way around.
Those are ALSO the reasons why these women stay single or get stuck in dead-end relationships! Don’t make that mistake. If you want guys to truly love you for you, then you MUST learn to accept them for them.
Quality #3: You're Interested in Him.
You SHOULD play hard to get. It's one of the most important, powerful, and love-triggering skills you could ever learn as a woman. But hiding your interest, or playing with his feelings, or treating him mean... is NOT playing hard to get. That’s just playing. Do you like players? (Neither do the guys!). Instead of hiding your interest, show it in a friendly, sexy, engaging way instead of in a tricky sneaky way!
Ladies How Many of These 3 Qualities Do You Have In You?
Gentlemen Am I wrong?
http://www.kaironews.com/news/kairo-enters-jammehs-torture-chamber/
、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、 To unsubscribe/subscribe or view archives of postings, go to the Gambia-L Web interface at: http://listserv.icors.org/archives/gambia-l.html To Search in the Gambia-L archives, go to: http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?S1=gambia-l To contact the List Management, please send an e-mail to: [log in to unmask]">[log in to unmask] 、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、、To Search in the Gambia-L archives, go to: http://listserv.icors.org/SCRIPTS/WA-ICORS.EXE?S1=gambia-l To contact the List Management, please send an e-mail to: [log in to unmask] ¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤