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Donna Bell <[log in to unmask]>
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The Electronic Church <[log in to unmask]>
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Hi Andrew,
I'm praying for you. I'm sorry for not responding sooner, gmail sent
this chain of emails to my spam.  My bad for not looking
sooner--smile.
My response is that the next time your dad tells you he'll call the
police you call them and ask for their protection. My x. husband was a
bully and I had to push back, and eventually leave.  People like that
are terrified of other people finding out.  I wouldn't suggest you do
anything llike this till we can find out about your laws.
You can write back later.
I'm praying for you.
Standing up for yourself is scary, but it's incredibly empowering.
God loves you, and so do we.  No matter what anyone says the fact that
your family is abusive is! not! your! fault.
Be blessed and stay safe.
Donna

On 6/27/15, Vicki <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
> Praying for you. If you can't do the research yourself then praying that
> you'll find someone that you can trust to help you.
>
> *** Sent from my iPhone ***
>
>> On Jun 27, 2015, at 1:33 PM, andrew edgcumbe
>> <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
>>
>> well  i don't think there is any shelters here all i hear about  is maybe
>> women's shelters and things i am not good at researching things i am just
>> confused and don't know who i can get to help me and things i live in
>> canada and i feel like  i just am very frusterated and things.  i can't
>> even think clearly and things.  the other night wasn't about me but way my
>> dad spoke to my mom was like he was angry it was like his teeth were
>> speaking through gridded teeth.
>>
>>> On Sat, Jun 27, 2015 at 11:22 AM, Vicki <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
>>> Andrew,
>>>
>>> If things are dangerous for you at home, have you checked with any
>>> shelters? Maybe even another rehabilitation program expressing your
>>> desire to take steps toward being independent?
>>>
>>> Vicki
>>>
>>>
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: andrew edgcumbe <[log in to unmask]>
>>> To: [log in to unmask]
>>> Date: Friday, June 26, 2015 9:00 pm
>>> Subject: Re: prayer request my family
>>>
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > Hi well i am not really sure what there is for me i just wonder    if
>>> > canada seems to respond differently to  these types of situations. i
>>> > don't know but  i feel at a loss of what to do.  i was never taught
>>> > banking as  even putting in or taking out money and  my parents  seem
>>> > to want control.
>>> >
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > On Fri, Jun 26, 2015 at 9:53 PM, Karen Carter <[log in to unmask]>
>>> > wrote:
>>> >
>>> > Father in Heaven we ask you to be in the situation
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > Karen Carter
>>> > Life Leadership
>>> > Freedom from the Financial Matrix
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > www.lifeleadership.com/61238666
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > Sent from my iPhone
>>> >
>>> > On Jun 22, 2015, at 19:28, andrew edgcumbe
>>> > <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
>>> >
>>> >
>>> > Hi all i just need prayer for my family.  it is just a struggle for me
>>> > and things like that.
>>> >
>>> >  this happened a month ago in april this happened. but anyway my
>>> > parents and i got into bit of a cafuffal and things.. i got bit jumpy
>>> > or whatever but that is all but anyway my dad all of a sudden tells me
>>> > to get out of the room very sternly. anyway i did not leave the room
>>> > but anyway he then threatened to call the police on me. i still did not
>>> > leave the room until he said he ment what he said about that threat.
>>> > this was couple hours before i was going out with a close friend. but
>>> > anyway when she came just before we left my mom said my dad wanted to
>>> > talk to my friend. We just told her we did not have time to talk and we
>>> > left she said she had a gut instinct that something was not right or
>>> > was going to happen or something like that before she got to my place i
>>> > was just pretty scared my friend said she couldn't blame me for being
>>> > scared as she would be to if that was said to her. I felt everything
>>> > from a evil presence to anything else in that house. My dad can be the
>>> > type who does raise his voice and shut people down instead of listening
>>> > to them things like that. I been babied and things by my parents and
>>> > things. my dad treats me like a kid just his tone of voice when he asks
>>> > things do you know what a porcky pine is for example it was like he
>>> > tells me stuff i already know. my parents tend to treat me like i have
>>> > a disability and things i will state here that i don't consider
>>> > blindness a disability only an impairment. but my parents treat me like
>>> > i can't do anything and things like that he tends to concentrate on
>>> > blindness both parents do that is and does not think on the abilities.
>>> > my parents are just very controlling when it comes to these things and
>>> > it just gets me down and things. he has said to me when i told him to
>>> > stop treat me like a blind man his return fraise is this well you are
>>> > blind and things like that. again i don't consider blindness a
>>> > disability i consider it an impairment only. i just end up feeling very
>>> > discouraged and feeling down and things like that. i end up feeling
>>> > hopless and i feel like i am very iceolated and i feel very trapped at
>>> > home as i am not aloud to do what i want to do and things. i just am
>>> > very tired of my parents in fact i feel down because of being so
>>> > trapped and things. my parents don't listen or anything to me and when
>>> > i tell somebody mom or dad how i feel they snap back at me very quickly
>>> > that is why i can't go to them.  My parents are just very controlling
>>> > and i feel like i get treated like a kid. I often  feel discourraged
>>> > and things.  something else happened  closer to the end of may my mom
>>> > and i were coming home from guitar and sort of ended up in some what of
>>> > another cafuffal. My mom slammed the breaks and  was pretty much
>>> > telling me to get out of the car and walk. I  didn't get out as i
>>> > wasn't going  to allow her to control me like that. I  quite often feel
>>> > trapped and things like that.  just keep me in your prayers.
>>> >
>>> >
>>
>

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