You should pick a therapist whom you like.Someone you can communicate with
, someone you can trust. Try to recall a positive interaction with amale
or a female and then see a therapist male or female in correspondance.
Cry hard.
 Josef

On Sun, 12 Jul 1998, Diana sadykov wrote:

> In looking for a new personal analyst, i am not sure whether i should choose a
> female or male analyst or whether it doesnt really matter at all. Im female
> myself and have not had much luck with male psychotherapists, so i figured
> that maybe having a female psychotherapist would be more beneficial,, but then
> again i wondered whether there will be enough transference on to the therapist
> if she was a female. I would greatly appreciate it if anyone has any
> suggestions for me..
> Thanku, Diana
>