So I visited Maafanta. I only saw my two friends Saidy and Jaw-Manneh speaking with their fellow womenfolk sprinkled with a smatterng of jabs at some men. Nderry, the two wonderful women are my friends. I figure I share any conflict of interest. I will therefore not discuss their opinions. However, I will agree and side with Jow-Manneh on matters of law.



Poly-gammy is against the law in most states of these United States except for some Mormon and unique enclaves where the state does not wish to legislate gammy. So in those states where the law contravenes poly-gammy, you are best advised to act accordingly or move to another state where your gammy is not legislated.



So in effect, this does not affect the health and ware of any gammy. In the states where gammy is or is-not legislated, there are human rights and tort laws that affect unions of persons. These are universal laws of human rights and that brings me back to the Mali CODE. It does not legislate gammies. It merely highlights the human rights of the parties in any arrangement - be it bi-gammy, mono-gammy, poly-gammy, homo-gammy, lesbi-gammy, etcetera. This is because the union of man with man, woman with man, man with woman, woman with woman, man with animal, animal with man, woman with animal, animal with woman, does not affect the rights of the constituent units.



Miss Saidy also brings up a valuable consideration; that is pre-nuptual agreements.



I want to share that I am a big fan of pre-anything agreements,=2
0and considering the gravity of marriage and other unions, it will behoove one NOT TO enter into a prior agreement. The agreement need not necessarily spell out the contours of sex because any sex between consenting adults is insignificant as to other. However, when that sex yields children or offspring, then the value of the pre-nuptual which appreciates the rights and welfare of such children and marital property will have been realized. We understand that men, women, and animals unite in matrimony for various reasons. The reasons are as unique as the individuals in such unions. Therefore, you marry without a pre-nuptual at your own peril and chagrin of your gammy partners and your offspring.



Remmember I do not mention anything about cheating or mistresses or boyfriends. That is not terribly significant to me. It is the purview of those concerned. I would advise though that cheating demonstrates incontinence of character. Be it at sex, play, religion, or other endeavour. DIseases are not what make cheating bad because you can catch diseases whether you are single, abstaining, married with mistresses, loyally married to 100 wives, or loyally married to one wife or husband. contrary to postulations, Mono-gammy wth mistresses is neither more acceptable nor more benign as to transmissibility of disease to yield epidemic or pandemic vistas. That is just a red-herring of idiots. Its the idiotic adage: What you don't know won't hurt you. I know you don't believe that Nderry that's why you're a friggin20journalist. How do you know that what you don't know won't hurt you? That is both dis-ingenuous and presumptuous. And that is why you go get the breaking news where-ever it may be hiding. This adage does not take into account the concentricity of the rings of life in Harunasilo.



So this is all I have to say on this gammy matter Nderry. I will now focus on the Mali CODE. I hope Mams does not misunderstand anything I say here to either presume that I support or abhor gammies. I couldn't care less. When I gift to my wife's parents, I gift to all the gammies and offspring of her father, regardless of that number. If I should entertain poly-gammy I shall entertain it where it is not illegal. All with a pre-nuptual agreement of sorts. And you don't have to own anything to enter into a pre-nuptual. Make sure it is witnessed and recorded in your local courhouse. However, I must make sure that all the gammies are in accord with any subsequent gammy or it ain't happening. One good way to avoid future misunderstanding is to make all gammies aware that you may have multiple gammies prior to gammying any of them. That is if you are muslim where it is understood by adhrents that there is liberty to do gammies. If you are Christian, it is already understood in that society that you may not gammy more than one, if that at all. We must remember that most folk are not idiots. They choose their religion for a reason. Forget salvation and heaven and hell. They haven't 
a clue what those are, and the religions are none the wiser. Evian, I don't wanna hear it. Nderry if anyone tells you that if you become a Muslim or CHristian or Mormon or Harunamo, or Baha'I, or adventist, or any permutation of those, that you are going to heaven, make sure you tell them you're late for home and your fambul dem. And tie a rubber-band around your farthings. I share that Harunasilo is aware of where heaven and hell are. They are right here and now. Go away Mams. I am not going to contribute to others' delinquencies in scaring little children and inuring false hopes for clueless adults. All in pursuit of farthings.

Allez. Haruna. 


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I'll check it out Nderry but I'm sure there's an entertainment/occupation component in there. Don't get unduly bogged down in insignificance. Haruna. 


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Ron,
You need to check it out. Get back with me. Thanks. 
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From: Haruna Darbo 
Date: Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:12:34 -0400
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Nderry,

 

I haven't had time to visit Maafanta on this Attaya melee. I probably cannot comment on other's gamy. Beware the t
hought police and those who desire to legislate others' gammies. Harunasilo does not legislate on gammies, only human unions, slavery, the ware of orphans, widowers, and spinsters. Bachelors are on their own until they obtain guidance from DaarManso and teir environmental considerations. I shall visit Maafanta tomorrow. Wonder how Tiger is doing?? He was at -3 when I last saw him. Haruna.


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Suntu,
Feminism at its best at Maafanta. Our men folks should watch their backs. What is sister FJM and others unto? Girl cool down your temper. 
I would love to hear Rons views on this one. Some one needs to speak out. 
I read extensively about western feminist philosophers and their achievements. I will share the reasoning of Mary and others if time permits. I think it takes two to tango. 
I am a strong advocate for women's rights and empowerment. I will continue do that. 

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From: SUNTOU TOURAY 
Date: Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:39:12 +0000
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Subject: In catching up with Maafanta







The sisters are talking tough man. The polgamy thing and all. I thought we are cool with that, but guess what the sister are on to us. We need a plan! They are saying some of us are polgamying anyway, with our secerataries, and personal assistants. They are also saying, well then let it stay down in Gambi, 
not U.S or Europe.

Anyhow, the sisters wish to clearly define where and how polygamy should be practise. they don't like it and cannot like it.

I am sure all you brothers know for a fact that, 'no woman will ever like co-wife'. the sisters have raise their voices, did all kinds of make-up (fatou Jaw's) comments-- but when a Gambian man wish to take a second wife, there is no stopping him. not even the tones of moro's or serign's tupi tupis can do anything.

Now i am biggining to understand the magnitude of stress and sadness our sisters go through. but well, are there any plus side to polgamy? I mean, when you find beautiful black sisters having no problem whatsoever of becoming a second wife. all they want is someone to be it and share the joy of 'LOVE'. The guys too seems to be in a paka nyari borr situation too sisters.

 

The other topic at Maafanta that caught my eye was the analysis on uncle Sam by AMNA. he/she couldn't have put it any better. she/he diagnose Sam better than the best psyco-analyst. she/he just unravel Sam so good, one begins to look over his shoulder. Thanks AMNA.

 

www.maafanta.com.

my little thought.. not forgetting miss Aisha Saidy's brilliant counter to that of the notable Fatou Jaw. Now then bring on Jabou (the experience) Jow.

Suntou




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